As a person who's never been a JW but married to a DF'd one, I can tell you her perspective seemed to be that JW's or at least the WT was getting bashed on here badly, but from my somewhat neutral perspective (at least initially neutral~), I explained that a lot of people here have been badly hurt by the actions of the WT, i.e. DF'd and unable to talk to parents, siblings, children, etc., and many are upset at how they've been misled ranging from months to 50 or more years, losing a lot of their life via compromising and not getting a better education, not interacting with other people that may've been really good friends, many being hurt by an apparent lack of love they've experienced at KH's, etc...
Anyway, to me, most of the bitterness seems directed at the organization rather than the people, though I've seen enough times where people feel current JW's are duped or even possibly stupid for not letting themselves look at material, even older WT mag's, that would dethrone the WT as being the sole "Truth."
I feel for current JW's...at least the ones going through problems and being too controlled to really do anything about it plus having to put on a fake front and seem perfect no matter what types of problems they have, i.e. mental/emotional/physical disabilities (at least with a good number of halls). To those that are truly happy with their current JW status, I don't feel the need to knock them, but I can understand refuting their points that come up periodically and have done so myself, as a Christian who doesn't hate the WT but definitely feels the WT is arrogant and seriously in error when calling themselves the truth and having their people act smugly about it when the WT being the sole servant, ect. is so easily refuted via a number of ways, via the Bible itself, the WT's own predictions/prophecies, changing policies, etc...
Anyway, peace to you and any current or ex-Jehovah's Witness; I have no problems personally with JW's at all and thought I noticed a number of seemingly cool ones at the local hall on the 3 visits I've had, though I totally felt strange about their ritualitically passing the emblems by untouched, doctrinal issues, etc...